The Cooperative Idealist
Temperament Conversational Overview
Inductive Language
Making a Generalized Statement about Present or Future, based on a Specific Event of the Past.
i.e. “It rains sometimes, I know that because when I was 7 it rained once.” —or– “You should leave early, because last week at this same time, there was a traffic jam.”
Interpretive Referential
Making References to things that are not set in stone, or could be interpreted differently. Also, unscientific Metaphors & Where Statements.
i.e. “Where I am great at art, because even Picasso was considered to be a bad artist, or Mozart a bad pianist, I am good at drawing.”
Directive Reasoning
Making Reasons as to why they do the things they do, in a very direct way. Also known as a “Know No” (AKA I “know why I nono”).
i.e. “No you see, I broke her ankle on purpose, so that she couldn’t outperform me.”
Metaphorical &/or Egotistical Syntax
Making Sentence structure in everyday conversation, to be about how great they are, with added fluff. Basically, waxing poetic about how they wax poetic about how great they are.
i.e. “I’m not a shoe, I am a beautiful human being, where is the love for someone who is full of greatness, and has never faulted, ever in their life?”
Hyperbolic Rhetorical
Making Rhetorical statements, in the form of questions, about their own skills that could be met with a contradictory response, which is not expected &/or forbidden by the speaker.
i.e. Q. “Why wouldn’t I be here?” A. Because I don’t want you here —or– Q. “How could I lose?” A. Because I am better than you.
Diplomatic Intellect
Making unaware positive statements, or technically researched negative statements, about the state of affairs, on a regular basis.
i.e. “I love France, because the embargo trade deal is through the roof.” —or– “That’s not true, the embargoment only lasted until the year, March 1972, when the trade deal died with Stalin.”
They don’t write what they know, they wear what they where, the place where they time, and then undermine–you for being really intelligent.
The Cooperative Idealist
Temperament Style
Interests
Education: Techniques
Preoccupation: Others
Vocation: Self
Interests are not equated to what the self wants, but instead given to what others are doing and saying. See’s self through an unnatural lens, based on opinions the self has made of others. See’s self as the hardest undertaking and deserves money for being oneself. Would rather be on the task of controlling, understanding and drawing conclusions of others, than focusing at the task at hand, i.e. themselves. Learned techniques are usually, but not limited to, how they accomplish their goals of understanding and controlling others.
Value
Being: Using
Trusting: Required
Yearning: Nothing
Seeking: Attention
Prizing: Sexuality
Aspiring: Model
Value in self, is not created by any concrete formation, rather made in a bubble of narcissistic public consciousness, i.e. hollywood starlets and instagram influencers. The underlying energy of what goes into being a celebrity, is not considered by self, only what pretending to be, can create inside of self. In so many words, emptiness is a plague that is required for self-value. This is not about those who put a lot of time and energy into creating a life, and curating public desire, it is about who looks to the superficial part of it, and only hangs on to that specific part. (Aubrey Plaza vs. Elizabeth Olsen in Ingrid Goes West, describes it to a T.)
Self-Image
Self-Esteem: Reward
Self-Respect: Entitled
Self-Confidence: Fraudulent
Self-Image is made up by a system of Esteem, Respect and Confidence in one’s self. In the case of the Cooperative Idealist, Self-Esteem is either from rewards for good behavior, or others indulgence in victimization of said self. Self-Respect is entitled, because self is narcissistic, as a disorder, that bestows respect on to self, for no reason. Self-Confidence is fraudulent, due to the issues that get self there, i.e., “I am perfect, why does no one love me?”
Orientation
Present: Destruction
Future: Idealized
Past: Reconstructed
Place: Time
Time: Place
Orientation of self has to do with Idealizing the future so much that the present can be destroyed, with little care. The past, itself, is reconstructed to suit the needs of self, to orientate self to proper alignment towards a better future. In so many words, they lie.
Place and Time are switched in the mind of the Cooperative Idealist, so that they can control the conversation or situation:
i.e.:
Q. “Is there a time change?”
A. “That depends on where you’re coming from!”
—or–
Q. “When should I arrive?”
A. “The ceremony will begin when all the RSVP’s are here.”
Social Role
Mating: Primal
Parenting: Lethal
Leader: Argumentative
Social Role is limited to their desire to attract the best looking mate in the room, to procreate with, or at least try to baby-trap, before the date even takes place. If they are unable to collect on said hot guy/girl, they will be upset with the others in the room, and their persona will change from superfly-nice guy, to piece of shit, angry, intellectually-deficit, bad guy. When they feel they are in a position of power, they are argumentative and angry, with any subordination, or what they call “under-handed abuse” from children, peers, and competition, as well as employees. They are awful parents, because they do not know how to love anything other than themselves.
Behavior
Self: Important
Role: Mating
Event: Boring
Where: Wear
Behavior is based on self being important, which helps self key into non-important events to define own self-behavior. Basically, speaking basically about themselves to show you how important they are to self. The pre-imagined idealist idea of self is completed by their own inability to come through, while showcasing how boring their own event was, by speaking on the mundane details, instead of something more important–like the better, more extravagant event, that was put on by others. When it comes to attire, self only knows where they will be. When it comes to where self is, attire only comes into place.
